Next event in person — May 20

One night.
Real people.
Real chemistry.

In-person speed dating for 25+, 35+ and 50+ singles across the Lower Mainland. Skip the swiping — meet 10+ people you'd actually want to meet, in one easygoing evening.

4.8★ from 600+ singles · Money-back if we cancel · Hosted in cozy local venues

EARLY BIRD $10 OFF
May 2026 Singles Speed Dating Abbotsford
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35+ Singles Speed Dating · Abbotsford

Wednesday, May 20, 2026
6:30 PM — 9:45 PM
Trading Post Brewing · 3058 Gladwin Rd
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Why offline?

Real chemistry doesn't
happen in a text bubble.

Endless swiping, ghosting, and superficial chats — it's easy to feel burned out by dating apps. We do things differently: an easy-flowing evening, no profiles, no pressure, just face-to-face conversations with other people tired of the same digital fatigue.

— meet your people, in person ✦

How a night with us works

Six things we do differently.

Every detail is planned so the night feels enjoyable, inclusive, and authentic — from the first hello to the morning-after match email.

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Meet 10+ singles in one evening

A series of short, structured mini-dates. No app, no waiting on replies — just talk to real people, all night.

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Curated for your stage of life

25+, 35+ and 50+ events. We carefully balance ages and gender so you meet people who actually fit.

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Cozy venues, never clubs

Local breweries, eateries and lounges with low lighting and easy parking. Comfort over chaos.

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More depth, less small talk

Conversation cards on the table if you want them, easy mingle time before & after the rotation.

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Hosted, not herded

Real humans run every night. Need a graceful exit? An intro? A nudge? We've got you.

06

Match results next morning

Mark your interests privately. We email mutual matches the morning after — no awkward in-person reveal.

Your speed dating host

Meet Terra

Terra is a certified hypnotherapist and life coach who's helped countless people build confidence, break free from old patterns, and create meaningful relationships.

With a down-to-earth, compassionate approach, she offers Dating & Confidence Coaching and personalized support for those ready to experience deeper, more authentic connections. Whether you're feeling stuck in dating or just craving something more real, Terra's here to help you gain clarity, shift emotional blocks, and align with the kind of love you truly want.

From people who showed up

Stories from the room.

"I almost cancelled. So glad I didn't — I met someone I've now been seeing for three months."

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Sarah M.35+ Abbotsford · Apr '26

"Way more relaxed than I expected. The hosts make it easy, and you actually get to talk to people."

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Daniel R.25+ Vancouver · Mar '26

"I've done apps for years. One night here was worth six months of swiping. Real conversations, real spark."

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Priya K.35+ Langley · Feb '26
Common questions

Before you book.

Most singles ask the same handful of things on their first night. If yours isn't here, message us — a real person will reply.

Ask us anything

You'll rotate through 8–12 short mini-dates of about 5 minutes each. After the event, mark your matches privately on your scorecard. We send you contact info for anyone who matched with you back — no awkward exchange in person.

Most people are! That's the beauty of the format — short, structured conversations with built-in conversation starters. Our hosts are there all night to help and the warm venue makes it feel less like a job interview and more like a friend's birthday.

We aim for the listed range as a centre of gravity — 35+ events skew 33–50, 25+ events skew 23–38, 50+ events skew 47–65. We balance gender registrations carefully so you'll always meet a similar number of dates.

If we don't hit minimum signups 48 hours before, we'll reschedule you into the next event of your choice with a free drink on us. You'll never lose your ticket.

Not at all. Every venue we partner with has great non-alcoholic options. The vibe is mingle-friendly, not bar-crawl.
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New events drop monthly.
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